feeling like a bastard...

edited February 2008 in Chit chat
So I just broke up with my GF after 2 years and 9 months of going together...

we've had some trouble, but we also where planning marriage and all of that, but yesterday, we got in to this huge fight over nothing and I ended up telling about my fears about the relation and telling her that it would probably wont work...

And now she's gone and I feel like shit...

no spectrum game makes us ready for such a thing...
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  • edited February 2008
    If you've made a mistake then go after her.
  • edited February 2008
    give it a few days to see how you feel, then go on your instincts
  • edited February 2008
    VanTammen wrote: »
    So I just broke up with my GF after 2 years and 9 months of going together...

    we've had some trouble, but we also where planning marriage and all of that, but yesterday, we got in to this huge fight over nothing and I ended up telling about my fears about the relation and telling her that it would probably wont work...

    And now she's gone and I feel like shit...

    no spectrum game makes us ready for such a thing...

    Hmm, it happens. I was with a girl for two years we had a big falling out and broke of the engagement. Within 24 hours were were crying in each others arms saying sorry and making up etc.

    However, after a further two years together we got sick of the sight of each other. It was hard to break up due to the centement of being together for so long.

    However, on the grand scheeme of things it was a very good thing to happen. As we both matured it was clear she was not my type, nor me hers. She was far too materialistic for my likng and spend money like rocket fuel even though we had very little of it. I call it my lucky escape. She was turning into her mother and I pity her father greatly. Over £50000 in debt from loans and credit cards plus a 2nd remortgage to boot. :eek:

    Soon after I met my now wife Lily (as seen in Miss WOS). A great considderate and caring individual. Not materialistic in the slightest and cares more about having fun than spending cash.

    If it's meant to be you will both get back together. If its not then what will be will be (que sera sera :roll:). Dont force events to bring you back together; just let nature take its course and if you are really right for each other time will soon tell.

    Who knows what bounties lie in wait around the corner. :)

    Scottie_UK.
    Calling all ASCII Art Architects Visit the WOS Wall of Text and contribute: https://www.yourworldoftext.com/wos
  • edited February 2008
    VanTammen wrote: »
    So I just broke up with my GF after 2 years and 9 months of going together...

    we've had some trouble, but we also where planning marriage and all of that, but yesterday, we got in to this huge fight over nothing and I ended up telling about my fears about the relation and telling her that it would probably wont work...

    And now she's gone and I feel like shit...

    no spectrum game makes us ready for such a thing...

    Bak 2 Skool when she slaps you???
  • edited February 2008
    Don't give up, don't beg either. or if she controls you, beg a lot.
    I stole it off a space ship.
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