dating websites?
has anyone done this sort of thing?
my mate went on a couple of years ago. i made fun of him, but he's getting married at the end of the year, and i'm looking forward to another christmas alone.
is it worth the effort, or should i just let fate decide my love life?
my mate went on a couple of years ago. i made fun of him, but he's getting married at the end of the year, and i'm looking forward to another christmas alone.
is it worth the effort, or should i just let fate decide my love life?
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But there were a helluva lot of saddos on there. Its worth doing for a laugh as long as youre not expecting to find 'miss right' but you never know what may happen. If it doesnt work with one of them then become friends and you might like one of her friends, create a 'chain' sort of thing.
All my mates who are now single (34 years old) are panicking a bit as all the nice girls are now married, the only single ones they know are divorcees or nice girls but have kids from their ex's.
Just branch out more, too many people just stay in the same town expecting miss right to appear out of the blue. Try speed dating ! Thats meant to be good !
I think you should go to one of these and report back !
it might be a good way of meeting lots of women in one night, but it may turn into being rejected by lots of women in one night!
It's great for non-serious stuff, but I don't recommend the internet for finding the right person. Most are desperate / saddos. I'm sure there are some genuinely nice people out there, but I think most of the nicer ladies dont need the internet to meet blokes.
I'm living with someone now, so my days of chasing women are over (well, almost..) - Going out on the piss is an expensive way of finding a woman. I've done it for over 10 years, and the women / flings that have come out of it havent really warranted the cost / time involved.
Speed dating looks a laugh and could work. I still think it is more likely to end in one-nighters though. A few mates had a go, and a few of them got a bit of sex out of it.
I still think the best way of finding a woman is through work / friends / activities - eg/ gym or something. I'd just spread the word to female friends that you would like their help lining up some dates - I'm sure someone you know, knows someone who would like a date.
But like i say the worlds a huge place, so many people seem to 'limit' their searchs to just one town. My other mates who are single seem to be in the 'Truman Show' and wont leave the local town and then moan about theres 'no nice girls around' expecting the town to constantly supply nice girls week in week out instead of the same ones !
A lot of people meet their partners at work but i've always found the motto 'dont dip your pen in the company ink' totally true as it can cause problems !
totally true. i have to see an ex everyday now at work. It was fun at the time, sneaking away for some ***, but now its really embaressing.
I try to convince my mates who moan about being single to make a break for it and move to a new place. I constantly get remarks like 'Its ok for you. You have a nice girlfriend'.. Which makes no sense as I only found her when I moved away.
A complete change usually brings better things.
All my single mates seem to expect miss perfect to land on their doorstep living by their favourite pub ! Perhaps back when they were 18 or 21 there seemed a constant supply of new girls but now with most married/kids etc theres less and less.
I still think its best to date tons in your 20's and then settle down in your 30's ! But now it seems very normal for people to be single 30-35. Had some great times obviously doing the dating thing/going to clubs all the time but on the other hand when you did leave on your own just like the Smiths song goes it was very depressing (Unlike the song i didnt go home and feel like i want to die though !)
out of the two girls i have dated this year, one was straying from her boyfriend, and the other was a posh girl wanting a bit of 'rough'.
Have a doubleheader this weekend and report back sunday on how it went
Love Cilla
ah the elusive threesum. something ive never done.
I did many years ago with twins & it was crap*
*I only said it was crap to make you feel better. It was f**king awsome!
So that is just a girl that is a friend then, or are you looking for a little bit fun on the side, eh?
In american pie style, we spread a rumour around the local pub where a lot of friends drink that my mate Martin had a huge dick. We did it seriously and only told one girl. She soon spread it around the pub and by the end of the night, he had more attention than any one man I've ever seen. Kinda proves that women are just as filthy as blokes.
Thing is, I think he ducked out of the opportunity of sex cos he thought he'd disappoint as they were expecting him to be hung like a donkey.
So it didn't work.
Scrap that idea.
Chloroform is a good way to meet new women....
that's too close to incest.
Is she a bike?
its meant to be a joke. :)
Hell, i made a fool out of me again, my beanie must be sitting too tight!
my fault for trying to be clever. :)
some bloke went around at work saying that about someone. thing is he did it a bit too much, in an obsessive kind of way.
When I was younger - a few times me & my mates would go to the back of the taxi queue and say 'if we give you a BJ will you take us home?' Every one of them would say no (thankfully). At the last taxi say 'Do you know where this address is, cos the others don't!' Then get in. All of his taxi driver mates will think he got a BJ off a bloke for a lift home!
thats well funny, will have to try that one out.
I once got in a taxi with a mate and we decided to try and interogate the driver for some dodgy taxi driver stories. My mate said something like 'So.. You taxi drivers must get a fair bit of sex - with girls not being able to pay the fare etc... Anything like that happen to you?...'
He replied with 'Nah, not with me mate... Its bullshit... Nothing like that happens..'
We were both really dejected at his comment and kinda sat back disappointed.
He saw how dissapointed we were, so he then said '... Apart from this one time.....'
He then went into this story of insane sex, involving some dirty housewife from town, and her sister and so on...
It was hilarious... Taxi drivers are so full of shit, but a great laff. If they havent got a tale about themselves, they know a few about other drivers..
Try asking next time you get a taxi home from town after a piss up.