Looks like our cat is on his death bed

edited March 2008 in Chit chat
Missus, four year old and four week old took cat to vet today as he is losing lots of weight and throwing up.

They have found a possible tumour but want to do futher tests and an x-ray on Friday.

The four year old wants to come on Friday 'To take Sammy to hospital'. We have decided if he is in a bad way we are going to get him put down. We have had him for seven years and I would rather let him go in little pain rather than draw it out and he suffers.

Both the missus and I have had cats when we were kids where our parents kept the cat drugged up with painkillers to extend their life. Sometimes you have to say goodbye before it gets too bad.

The four year knows about the fish in the tank sometimes die, not sure how she is going to handle it if Sammy has to go :(
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  • edited February 2008
    Sorry to hear about that :-(
  • edited February 2008
    :-(

    One of my cats had a similar issue last year. In the end it was better to help him out than extend his pain (and mine, in a way).
  • edited February 2008
    our rat died the other day, he was an old fella, died about 6 months or so after his brother.
    the missus texted to tell me whilei was coming home from work, told me the eldest was devestated.
    i got home and she was laughing and joking...not devestated at all, just said...wilburs not here...hes dead
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  • edited February 2008
    when my first rat died, he was rattling his cage really loudly and woke me up, and in the morning he was dead, maybe he had a heartattack. I buried him on the shoreline on the southcoast, and still have a wine cork with his teethmark somewhere.

    I like rats.

    I like pets generally really.

    It's always sad when they die. :(
  • edited February 2008
    Young kids get over pet deaths pretty quickly...especially if you buy them a new kitten.
  • edited February 2008
    hope things can go as well as possible

    i remember when our first dog died, had it since i was born. my younger brother started screaming and crying and ran off to his room. tears were running down my dads face. i didn't cry, i don't know why cos i loved the dog, i just cuddled my dad.

    i must have been about 11.
  • edited February 2008
    After IN31s other 'no pussy' observations this is doubly devastating.

    I really truly apologize for the above but damn...what a setup.

    *bends over to have 'asshole' branded on him
  • edited February 2008
    beanz wrote: »
    Young kids get over pet deaths pretty quickly...especially if you buy them a new kitten.
    Cats can be a pain, with their scratching everywhere and crapping in the garden. You always say 'Once this one pops his clogs that is it' but you know you are weak and a cute little kitten appears on the scene not long after :-D
  • edited February 2008
    IN31 wrote: »
    Cats can be a pain, with their scratching everywhere and crapping in the garden. You always say 'Once this one pops his clogs that is it' but you know you are weak and a cute little kitten appears on the scene not long after :-D

    i imagine thats much the same as marriage.
  • edited February 2008
    I had my cat de-clawed so it can't tear my furniture up...but mainly coz when it was a kitten it had snagged my happysacks when I was wearing shorts one day and it made me scream.
  • edited February 2008
    beanz wrote: »
    I had my cat de-clawed so it can't tear my furniture up...but mainly coz when it was a kitten it had snagged my happysacks when I was wearing shorts one day and it made me scream.

    And that's the closest they ever got to a pussy...

    (sorry about the cat... I'm a big fan of cats and hate it when they die).

    Andrew
  • edited February 2008
    And that's the closest they ever got to a pussy...

    Andrew

    Burrrrrnnnn!
  • edited February 2008
    I gave up on cats where I live. They either get run over, or get the cats version of AIDS or Leukemia, which seem to strike without warning and your beloved cat suddenly is skinny, lethargic and coughing up blood within the week and then er dead. A bit of a shame but there you go.

    Anyway I'm sure your 4 year old will handle it well. Be upset a bit at first, but they're well able to survive happy in their own little world with their cartoons and toys and get on with things.
  • edited February 2008
    beanz wrote: »
    I had my cat de-clawed so it can't tear my furniture up...but mainly coz when it was a kitten it had snagged my happysacks when I was wearing shorts one day and it made me scream.
    I used to have that as a kid... We had two cats. One liked to sleep under the covers with you in the warmth. The other cat would jump on the bed to sleep but end up twatting the other cat on the head as they landed. Cue two cats fighting between the covers with me knackers inches away :(
  • edited February 2008
    beanz wrote: »
    Burrrrrnnnn!

    You did make it a bit easy for me :)

    Andrew
  • edited February 2008
    IN31 wrote: »
    I used to have that as a kid... We had two cats. One liked to sleep under the covers with you in the warmth. The other cat would jump on the bed to sleep but end up twatting the other cat on the head as they landed. Cue two cats fighting between the covers with me knackers inches away :(


    I've got a funny story similar to that about my son's kitten...

    It liked to climb under the covers and nestle about halfway down...

    Well one day, I was in bed reading a book, and the cat had gone to sleep under my legs right near my arse....

    Not thinking anything of it, I farted loudly...
    After a noticeable pause (long enough for the smell to reach him) I felt that cat tense up. He then hissed loudly and bolted from under the covers like a bat out of hell... Needless to say, at this point I was pissing myself laughing... He wouldn't come near me for a day after that...

    Andrew
  • edited February 2008
    IN31 wrote: »
    I used to have that as a kid... We had two cats. One liked to sleep under the covers with you in the warmth. The other cat would jump on the bed to sleep but end up twatting the other cat on the head as they landed. Cue two cats fighting between the covers with me knackers inches away :(

    i imagine that scenario would be similar if your wife found you in bed with her sister
  • edited February 2008
    mile wrote: »
    i imagine that scenario would be similar if your wife found you in bed with her sister
    She only has a brother and he is a bit of a retard so she is safe there. Saying that I would not mind banging her aunt :p
  • edited February 2008
    beanz wrote: »
    I had my cat de-clawed so it can't tear my furniture up...but mainly coz when it was a kitten it had snagged my happysacks when I was wearing shorts one day and it made me scream.

    Welll.. I can sort of understand that, but it's really not a good idea to get cats declawed. Don't think I'm having a "go" because it's possible you might not know about this, but the vet that did it should have... It's not actually declawing them - it's amputating the equivalent to half of their "fingers". There are much better ways to stop them scratching the furniture. And if they ever go outside, they are totally unable to defend themselves, or escape danger (cats will often go up trees, without claws they can't). Even if your cat's an 'indoor' cat, occasionally they do escape and then they are doomed - unable to hunt, unable to defend themselves.

    This is why declawing is illegal in the UK, and most US states.

    http://www.sniksnak.com/cathealth/declaw.html

    Just so you don't get the next one declawed.
  • edited February 2008
    Winston wrote: »
    Welll.. I can sort of understand that, but it's really not a good idea to get cats declawed. Don't think I'm having a "go" because it's possible you might not know about this, but the vet that did it should have... It's not actually declawing them - it's amputating the equivalent to half of their "fingers". There are much better ways to stop them scratching the furniture. And if they ever go outside, they are totally unable to defend themselves, or escape danger (cats will often go up trees, without claws they can't). Even if your cat's an 'indoor' cat, occasionally they do escape and then they are doomed - unable to hunt, unable to defend themselves.

    This is why declawing is illegal in the UK, and most US states.

    http://www.sniksnak.com/cathealth/declaw.html

    Just so you don't get the next one declawed.

    I've been told that by just about everyone...but I don't see it. The cat is an indoor cat (never goes out, never will), it wasn't in pain...or didn't appear to be...it was playing and running the next day.

    Does just fine now and there are no negatives..it can do everything it used too and still acts like it has claws (scratches things etc and swats).

    I have had many cats and I have zero faith in any of the other methods to stop scratching (they are not 100% and it only takes one scratch to fuckup a $3000 leather sofa).

    Seriously don't see a problem...if the cat ever did get out..not having claws would be the least of its problems as it would be totally unfamiliar with everything...mainly 1/2 ton cars.
  • edited February 2008
    I'm sure most humans missing the first joint of their fingers wouldn't be in pain, but still, it wouldn't be my first choice! I'd rather not have cheap sofa that gets scratched from time to time, than an expensive sofa but a declawed cat. I know all about scratching. I have three cats. I usually growl at them when they scratch. Doesn't always stop them, but ... I'd rather have cheap scratched furniture and intact cat paws. (Especially since they gotta earn their keep and keep the house rat and mouse free which they do very well, the cost of living in a fairly rural area is I get frequent critters deciding to move in with me. They tend not to stay, though). I'd also rather have cheap second hand furniture because $3000 buys quite a lot of avgas.
  • edited February 2008
    Winston wrote: »
    I'm sure most humans missing the first joint of their fingers wouldn't be in pain, but still, it wouldn't be my first choice!

    my advice, don't join the yakuza.

    ha ha, seriously they prolly wouldn't let you in anyway.

    we used to have a teacher missing part of his fingers, he used to joke about it, i don't think they got cut off cos he clawed someones balls. although that wouldn't have suprised me.
  • edited February 2008
    My little smelly black cat died last year, I think I posted something up on someone elses thread closer to the time it happened.

    I was just gutted cos' I thought I'd get to see him again, since I hand reared him since he was 2 or 3 days old, with a little squirty bottle full of Cimicat (Now that stuff stinks). Nobody thought he would last a week, but he lived 10 years.

    My ma reckoned he ended up with a tumor on his spine or in his brain, and he died before the vet got there to "put him to sleep".

    I'm not having any more pets ever again, after my Iguana died I promised myself no more tropical, or weird pets, and since I've moved away from home I don't want any more full stop, it sucks too much when they die.
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  • edited February 2008
    On-topic: Sorry to hear it. I love animals, but I don't like to have to deal with a pet's death. I know it's part of life, but I would prefer not to have to go through it. Losing family members is already heart-shattering. A pet can be loved as a family member, and in the end it hurts too. The only reason I have a cat now is because my wife and kids begged me to bring him home. He was an abandoned little kitten. They begged with tears, and I couldn't refuse. But I fear the day they'll lose Speccy. *sigh*

    @Beanz: I've heard that even though cats adapt after being de-clawed, it's considered inhumane to do it. Cats have their claws as their pride, and it has been proven that they feel incomplete without it. If your cat isn't depressed, you're lucky. Speccy here used to scratch the couch, etc. How did we solve it? We bought a catnip scratcher and showed him the way. Everytime he tried to scratch something else he would be shot with my cold water gun. He learned the lesson quickly. He's been using catnip scratchers since 2003. They last for a long time too. :)
  • edited February 2008
    Sorry to hear about your cat, i do remember when our cat was put down when i was about 7 at the time, was very very sad but looking back the cat had a great long life.

    As for de-clawing not really a fan of it, on one hand i think dont have a cat then if youre gonna do that to them but on the other hand that cat could be just thrown out (if its not sold) and will eventually die as a stray. Catch 22.

    My sister has two cats who are house cats (she used to have a flat and they wouldnt come back now if she let them out ever), theyre not de-clawed, took a few weeks of telling them off the second they tried to claw her leather sofa but cats are clever, they love their scratching post and scratch there all the time, her sofa is in great condition.
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    edited February 2008
    Its always sad to see a cat go downhill.
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  • edited February 2008
    He seems okay at the moment but is very thin compared to his normal fat look. The four year old has changed her mind and does not want to go to the vet.

    Got to drop him off at 9am and they will do some tests and call us.

    We don't think he will be coming home :cry:
  • edited February 2008
    IN31 wrote: »
    He seems okay at the moment but is very thin compared to his normal fat look. The four year old has changed her mind and does not want to go to the vet.

    Got to drop him off at 9am and they will do some tests and call us.

    We don't think he will be coming home :cry:

    Aww I'm sorry mate :(

    My sister in law had a cat that has a tumour, she was painfully thin and would not eat. They took her to the vets and removed the tumour that had been growing in her. She's fine now, fat, healthy and eating well.
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  • edited February 2008
    Scottie_uk wrote: »
    Aww I'm sorry mate :(

    My sister in law had a cat that has a tumour, she was painfully thin and would not eat. They took her to the vets and removed the tumour that had been growing in her. She's fine now, fat, healthy and eating well.

    How long since the operation? (in my case my cat survived an extra half a year after the operation but the tumour came back :-( )
  • edited February 2008
    Scottie_uk wrote: »
    My sister in law had a cat that has a tumour, she was painfully thin and would not eat. They took her to the vets and removed the tumour that had been growing in her. She's fine now, fat, healthy and eating well.
    If that is an option then great will go for it. If there is any hint of pain dragging on I will switch the old chaps lights off.
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