It's funny you mention that... Had a big falling-out with my other half this weekend, looks like that's over now too (been a long time coming, though). She's been treating me like a t**t for some time now, think I've had as much as I can take.
Once again, same thing applies as the job....probably a good thing that will lead to a better/younger one anyway!
The next one just make sure you let her know whose boss from day 1.
The next one just make sure you let her know whose boss from day 1.
I think that's my problem right there, I'm too damn nice to people, especially girls. Need to be a bit more of an arse, seems to work well where I live.
I know what you mean, when i was much younger i was 'mr nice guy' , too nice in fact and people just walk all over you. Then again i was partly to blame for constantly saying yes to someone even though they just used me back then for lifts and other stuff when i was young.
Not saying turn into a total bastard but have some self respect and dont let yourself get used otherwise some people will just walk all over you sadly. At the end of the day i'm sure you can do much better and find someone who will treat you right and not take the p*ss.
The girls who always used to want 'a nice bloke to treat me right' were the ones who never liked blokes like that and always went for the 'bad lads' instead and then moan when they get hurt !
Just dont mess up your eyesight looking at that certain ***tube site all the time though ;)
The girls who always used to want 'a nice bloke to treat me right' were the ones who never liked blokes like that and always went for the 'bad lads' instead and then moan when they get hurt !
They're all like that round my way (or maybe just the ones I meet). My girlfriend and I have been on and off since school (seriously). We've split up, gone without seeing or hearing from each other for ages, then got back together, split up again etc (you can guess the pattern)!?
Every time we get back together she tells me how her ex (whoever she was just with) would treat her like dirt, some of them have even been known to give her a clout. Sometimes I think she treats me like poop just because she's used to being treated like that herself. But I daren't say that to her, it'll just give her an excuse to do it more.
Well obviously i dont know the situation but on the other hand some girls seem to like being treated like that (I DONT mean being hit) but just have an argumentative partner. Its like shes treating you like crap as she wants a reaction perhaps ?
Like i say i hardly know the situation but some girls i used to know were 'tough' personalitys and loved it when a bloke stood up to them, other weaker ones they would just have their fun with.
Difficult tricky race these females arent they ! ;)
Seriously perhaps let the dust settle and leave it a few months as it might be wrong to keep going back a few days/week later and then a few months later youre in the same boat etc.
Or take a page out of Miles book and become a charmer to many ladies over the net. He has a harem of women i've heard from all areas of the net.
when going the bad route, you dont have to be some sort of wife beating gangster.
follow these rules.
1) dont text unless she texts
2) only tell her you love her after she says it, same goes for further declarations of love.
3) tell her about your other female freinds, and girls that ask you out
4) smack her ass as much as possible
5) make sure you give her rough time in bed, and make her submit to you.
6) never cry in front of her
etc
I'm quite impressed miles.....I thought you was in the catagory of whipped....or is this just a list you have but don't apply.
A few changes though..
2) sometimes don't even respond with I love you after her..when she challenges it...just say..'Oh is it a requirement that i regurgitate the same line every time you do?'
5) Turn her down some nights a). makes her think something is wrong. b). makes the next night much more interesting.
6) and try to make her cry at least 3 times a week but turn it around so that she is being 'overly sensitive' and needs to get a grip.
I'm quite impressed miles.....I thought you was in the catagory of whipped....or is this just a list you have but don't apply.
yeah im whipped in this relationship, it helps though, especially when she finds a bag of mdma in your wallet.
the thing about being bad it only works for so long, once she wants to settle down she jack you in for someone that will do the washing up. Also its almost impossible to pull off if you are in love with the woman. when ive had that ive been more or less a door mat.
im usually bad to the ones i dont like, then they end up stalking me :(
3) tell her about your other female freinds, and girls that ask you out
Hot-dang!! If I did that I'd go to sleep one night and never wake up... if she hears about a female giving me the eye, she puts the face on and sticks me in the doghouse!! Seriously man, Facebook has landed me in sooooo much poop with her in the past.
Numbers 1 and 2 on your list though, I've got them down to a fine art!! :grin:
2) sometimes don't even respond with I love you after her..when she challenges it...just say..'Oh is it a requirement that i regurgitate the same line every time you do?'
That really is how I feel sometimes. It's exactly like that, like "love" has now totally become just a word, totally devoid of any warmth or meaning.
Cool though lads, I like it... Keep it coming!! :grin:
Some of these rules are quite sneaky and I have my own variants, basically my wife is always used to getting her own way, and sometimes when I make it so she doesn't get her own way, it's like she cracks up, and really doesn't know how to cope. I can pretty much turn things around now if things go a little sour (I've been able to do that with other chicks in the past but the wife is the one I've been with the longest).
One thing I always found works to your advantage is if they're moping around and being arsey with you, Never! Never! No matter how tempting ask "What have I done?". If she's being an arse greet her with the same courtesy and the table will soon turn and she'll be asking you what's wrong!
One thing I always found works to your advantage is if they're moping around and being arsey with you, Never! Never! No matter how tempting ask "What have I done?". If she's being an arse greet her with the same courtesy and the table will soon turn and she'll be asking you what's wrong!
i'll keep asking whats wrong till see answers, and if its something ive done, i'll get in a huff, and then let her make it up to me. i think sometimes they just want to get it off their chest.
theres more statergy involved in a relationship than any command and conquer game.
All they need to know is where the kitchen and bedroom is. You make all the decisions, you pay the bills, you take her wages off her and give her 'pocket money'.
Women like to be dominated......some just don't know it.
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Once again, same thing applies as the job....probably a good thing that will lead to a better/younger one anyway!
The next one just make sure you let her know whose boss from day 1.
Ha ha, thanks for that psj. Don't know about the latter, but after Friday (last day at work) I'll be doing plenty of the former!!
I think that's my problem right there, I'm too damn nice to people, especially girls. Need to be a bit more of an arse, seems to work well where I live.
Not saying turn into a total bastard but have some self respect and dont let yourself get used otherwise some people will just walk all over you sadly. At the end of the day i'm sure you can do much better and find someone who will treat you right and not take the p*ss.
The girls who always used to want 'a nice bloke to treat me right' were the ones who never liked blokes like that and always went for the 'bad lads' instead and then moan when they get hurt !
Just dont mess up your eyesight looking at that certain ***tube site all the time though ;)
They're all like that round my way (or maybe just the ones I meet). My girlfriend and I have been on and off since school (seriously). We've split up, gone without seeing or hearing from each other for ages, then got back together, split up again etc (you can guess the pattern)!?
Every time we get back together she tells me how her ex (whoever she was just with) would treat her like dirt, some of them have even been known to give her a clout. Sometimes I think she treats me like poop just because she's used to being treated like that herself. But I daren't say that to her, it'll just give her an excuse to do it more.
Like i say i hardly know the situation but some girls i used to know were 'tough' personalitys and loved it when a bloke stood up to them, other weaker ones they would just have their fun with.
Difficult tricky race these females arent they ! ;)
Seriously perhaps let the dust settle and leave it a few months as it might be wrong to keep going back a few days/week later and then a few months later youre in the same boat etc.
Or take a page out of Miles book and become a charmer to many ladies over the net. He has a harem of women i've heard from all areas of the net.
They certainly are, me old mucker. Like my best mate says, "women... can't live with them, can't kill them"!! ;)
Thats why you only keep them on a temporary basis.
when going the bad route, you dont have to be some sort of wife beating gangster.
follow these rules.
1) dont text unless she texts
2) only tell her you love her after she says it, same goes for further declarations of love.
3) tell her about your other female freinds, and girls that ask you out
4) smack her ass as much as possible
5) make sure you give her rough time in bed, and make her submit to you.
6) never cry in front of her
etc
I'm quite impressed miles.....I thought you was in the catagory of whipped....or is this just a list you have but don't apply.
A few changes though..
2) sometimes don't even respond with I love you after her..when she challenges it...just say..'Oh is it a requirement that i regurgitate the same line every time you do?'
5) Turn her down some nights a). makes her think something is wrong. b). makes the next night much more interesting.
6) and try to make her cry at least 3 times a week but turn it around so that she is being 'overly sensitive' and needs to get a grip.
yeah im whipped in this relationship, it helps though, especially when she finds a bag of mdma in your wallet.
the thing about being bad it only works for so long, once she wants to settle down she jack you in for someone that will do the washing up. Also its almost impossible to pull off if you are in love with the woman. when ive had that ive been more or less a door mat.
im usually bad to the ones i dont like, then they end up stalking me :(
Hot-dang!! If I did that I'd go to sleep one night and never wake up... if she hears about a female giving me the eye, she puts the face on and sticks me in the doghouse!! Seriously man, Facebook has landed me in sooooo much poop with her in the past.
Numbers 1 and 2 on your list though, I've got them down to a fine art!! :grin:
That really is how I feel sometimes. It's exactly like that, like "love" has now totally become just a word, totally devoid of any warmth or meaning.
Cool though lads, I like it... Keep it coming!! :grin:
See that right there, that's me now!! I am in love!! And I am a doormat!!
there isn't a way out of that im afraid. if you dont see her for a few years youll feel better.
or get her pregnant.
One thing I always found works to your advantage is if they're moping around and being arsey with you, Never! Never! No matter how tempting ask "What have I done?". If she's being an arse greet her with the same courtesy and the table will soon turn and she'll be asking you what's wrong!
i'll keep asking whats wrong till see answers, and if its something ive done, i'll get in a huff, and then let her make it up to me. i think sometimes they just want to get it off their chest.
theres more statergy involved in a relationship than any command and conquer game.
Correction: Allow her to believe she is always right and you will not go far wrong ...
All they need to know is where the kitchen and bedroom is. You make all the decisions, you pay the bills, you take her wages off her and give her 'pocket money'.
Women like to be dominated......some just don't know it.