a girl in my mind
I am missing a girlfriend. Newly I met little waitress in a bufet near my residence. She is very nice, has beautiful hair, but here is big problem : She is only 16 (I am 34). Maybe her father is as old as me, I could go for a beer with him (scarry). She has already face of woman, but mind of a pupil - she always talks about school. Should I let her be due to age abyss, or have I to effort for something ?
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it would be stupid.
Well said Mile. Just because you can does not make it right in peoples minds.
Perhaps you are 'missing a girlfriend' as you say so as this girl has been nice to you suddenly youre starting to like her.
You need to go out, get drunk with the guys at the weekend and meet someone. I'm 35 and i wouldnt even think of going near a 16 year old. Would feel very uncomfortable with that plus i know at 16 what my feelings were like, its just wrong.
I mean as you say she talks about school lots, what have you got in common with her ? This coming from the guy who was asking what porn actress was on a certain website and that you've 'fallen in love' with a girl from a dodgy video from one of your other threads you started ? I dont think her dad would think you sound like great boyfriend material !
Your opening line about 'I am missing a girlfriend'. Take your time to find one, dont fall for the first girl who seems to be nice to you (specially when shes 16). Girls hate desperate guys, just take your time and you'll meet someone but a 16 year old ? Come on !!! Wrong, wrong, wrong.
I think when you get to about 21 it becomes a bit uncomfortable dating someone of the age 16. Plus what would you have in common to talk about??
Girls change allot between the ages of 16 to 18 and with an 18 year old its ok to have the age gap a bit bigger. At 25 I met an 18 year old and was with her for four years before she cheated on me. At 29 I met a 21 year old and am now married to her.
I think at about 21 girls get less fickle in their relationships and are less likely to run around on you.
Girls need time to play the field too these days, else if they don't they get itchy feet and start getting curious about what else is on offer (for better or worse).
You date a a 16 year old, and you'll soon end up broken hearted, and you'll also have to answer to your conscience that will continually make you feel guilty. You will also feel the relationship is something to hide, be ashamed of... in the end it won't do wonders for your self esteem.
Date someone much older that’s my advice.
Are you a robot ? Have you got stuck ? Quick someone give Scottie a whack to sort him out ! ;)
nah, its the after effects of birthday beer.
nah, its the after effects of birthday beer.
nah, its the .....
It thaught it was just me still seeing double.
Are Mel and Miles real?
Stick with the one you know and can rely on...
...your right hand.
I always thought most relationships back then never lasted, i know theres some people here who are still with their first love but nowadays that seems more and more uncommon ?
I would love to be a fly on the wall if he does ask her dad if he can date her though ! Probably have to wait for a while to hear what happens as he wont be able to type much on WOS once most of his body is broken !
And hope she doesn't shop you.
Must run, I hear the footsteps of the morality police.
My friends would then quickly tell me to get a life or sort myself out.
Bit worried for bohusk !
My advice is go for it - simply ask her out and take it from there. You'll only be wondering "what if?" if you don't and you never know. You'll get some bigots calling you a cradle-snatcher and all that, but the fact is she is of legal age if those are your intentions!
The only thing I'll say is if you're looking for a relationship don't expect it to last. Like it or not you belong in different worlds with an age gap like that and sooner or later she's going to want to spread her wings and I'm sorry to say you'll will most likely be to old for the ride.
I was 18 and went out with a 35 year old and like you say i had the time of my life ! But a 35 year old with an 18 year old people would think is wrong, but definately i would say a 16 year old (i mean months earlier she probably was 15 !).
If she was 18 i dont think eyebrows would be raised so much but 16 ? But again someone who creates threads about 'who is the porn star' or 'watch this smutty video' i wouldnt want dating my 16 year old daughter i must admit !
Edit: Oh and take photos.
There's never a dull moment is there :lol:
Made me smile that did :D
....and I've got a rotten hangover after yesterdays shenanigans :lol:
and don't bleeding post the pics here for gods sake.
email them to us :p
A good point. Look what happened to Roman Polanski - is he still a fugitive in the US?
Totally agree with ya ! I just think its wrong a 34 year old guy with a 16 year old (Who could have just turned 16 !) totally ! Specially a guy whos openly into porn etc !
yeah i dont think he is allowed back just yet. yeah it can be a simple mistake but being branded a rapist can hurt your future relationships.
(of course being ignorant of a sexual partners ages is never an excuse.)