Losing ones temper at work.

edited September 2013 in Chit chat
Im usualy quite a chilled out kind of person but if something pushes my buttons too much i lose me rag.

Im feeling a bit bad as i lost my temper with a customer he was a tool and wouldnt listen to what i was saying even though i was trying to solve a problem for him.

Admitedley the problem was created by the company i work for but when someone wont let you help them and then complains when 20 mins later their problem is still not sorted just drove me mad.

Wasnt really the blokes fault so feel bad now.

Rant over.
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  • edited September 2013
    Meh! F'kim!
  • edited September 2013
    STeaM wrote: »
    Meh! F'kim!

    I second STeaM's motion!!!


    ummm...
    So far, so meh :)
  • edited September 2013
    I used to get stressed out at work all the time (as a warehouse manager) - not really at anyone in particular, just myself and inanimate objects, but I had to leave in the end as it was literally driving me to drink - not good when you have young children.

    I'm back working at the same company now, but running the websites - I couldn't go back to warehouse manager again, I'd probably implode.
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  • edited September 2013
    Soooo ... did you apologise to the customer? Or your boss? Or ... maybe there is no need for that? I mean, the moment has passed, the customer's gone, the boss wasn't there, etc, etc.
  • fogfog
    edited September 2013
    I work with the public, some of the time.. if you feel guilty about it, that is good in a way , learn from it.

    BUT some people do seem to press the wrong buttons. I had one the other week, there was a ladder there to hint something was out of order/someone was working on it.. yet someone told me the thing wasn't working.. I told them that's why the ladder was there,engineer was in.. I had to bite my lip and not make a sarcy remark about "yer u'll find em all over the building, we are a superstitious lot"

    same with driving, and you give way when they should have/it was your turn.. I F and B'.. like a goodun . one idiot cut in just as a joined a 3 road (north circular) the other day.

    a large percentage of my friends (who I don't work with )dislike their job and a lot are just biding their time.
  • edited September 2013
    leespoons wrote: »
    I used to get stressed out at work all the time (as a warehouse manager) - not really at anyone in particular, just myself and inanimate objects, but I had to leave in the end as it was literally driving me to drink - not good when you have young children.

    I'm back working at the same company now, but running the websites - I couldn't go back to warehouse manager again, I'd probably implode.

    I felt that way towards the end working at an IT helpdesk.

    General users shouldn't be allowed near computers, and they rarely learn from their own mistakes ... mainly because "they" never do anything wrong.

    Or maybe Fisher Price should design the OS, and the US Army should design the hardware around it. That should be user-proof enough ( Don't count on it! -Ed )
  • edited September 2013
    acceptable if you work in a monty python sketch. :D
  • edited September 2013
    over 10 years dealing with customers.....and some of em will be getting a visit from me in the wee hours if I ever win the lottery and can afford proper lawyers

    Some people forget the reason why they've called up for help and prefer to try and spark an argument for the sake of it....seen it so many times when a conversation between one of my troops and a customer goes wrong as they both loose sight of the fact that they're both trying to solve a problem and descend into a personal feud

    I wouldn't let it phase you man - quite often the most arsehole customer will apologise for how they've treated people once they calm down....up to you if you want to do the same - but if it were me I'd prob find a solution that might work for them and then call em up and try putting it to em when the aggro had time to cool off
  • zx1zx1
    edited September 2013
    I worked for Directory Enquiries for 9 years and the public are all tools!:grin:
    The trouble with tribbles is.......
  • edited September 2013
    Was this over the phone, 1980-20..?

    If it was, then it's only a shame you couldn't play "The Brown Note" continuously until he had shat himself to death.
  • edited September 2013
    I get shouted at a fair bit by members of the public, people shooting the messenger mostly.
  • edited September 2013
    STeaM wrote: »
    Was this over the phone, 1980-20..?

    If it was, then it's only a shame you couldn't play "The Brown Note" continuously until he had shat himself to death.

    No it was in person. I had to look up The Brown Note" you are on strange puppy steam! :-)

    thx1138 wrote: »
    I get shouted at a fair bit by members of the public, people shooting the messenger mostly.

    Yep as above really ive been promised that its all sorted and the geezer is coming back today.
  • edited September 2013
    Just got the following email to my ebay email address - an advert for a seminar entitled "Managing Difficult Behaviour":
    Transform the way you deal with awkward, negative and difficult behaviour for good! This effective and valuable session gives you the insights, skills and techniques as well as practical tips, so you can manage difficult behaviour in the workplace, whether dealing with colleagues, managers, customers, or in fact anyone.

    Funny how they seem to be targeting ebay sellers in particular :lol:
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  • edited September 2013
    I agree most people should be banned from having a computer. i am in the IT but not a helpdesk. look after all the hardware here from Servers, Printer, Switches etc although most here think everything with a plug on it including desktop lamps!

    but my hate is the calls i get that go somwhat like this.

    Them: Hi Paul my Outlook wont start.

    me: i'll pop by and have a look.

    Them: whats wrong with it?!?!?!

    Me: get out of you effing chair let me look at your computer and i might find the problem.......

    ps. i worked for 11 years with the American Army, you dont want them near anything. lots of the vehicle manuals were written like comic books including cartoon pictures !!
  • edited September 2013
    In my old job I worked in the Council Tax Recovery department in Local Government so I bet you can imagine the phone calls we used to get there. I don't think I ever lost my cool with anyone, or since. Thankfully I'm out of LG altogether now.

    I used to especially enjoy the threatening phone calls. "Send the bailiffs round my house and I'll take a baseball bat to 'em. Then I'm coming after you." was the usual one. Cue a few months later and they'd be sobbing down the phone because the bailiffs were there to take their stuff away. Of course all calls were noted down so you had plenty of ammunition to throw back at them...

    I did once have to sit with one of the managers in a small room opposite a night club bouncer accused of murdering someone (it was one of those 'chucked down the stairs' incidents), and he was not happy about the summons he'd just received.....
  • edited September 2013
    bbulldog wrote: »
    ps. i worked for 11 years with the American Army, you dont want them near anything. lots of the vehicle manuals were written like comic books including cartoon pictures !!

    Exactly! Easy To Read, Easy To Understand. More importantly, that comic book manual was more than likely encased in a two inch thick steel folder. That was what I was referring to earlier, make the OS by Fisher-Price, the HARDWARE by the army icon14.gif
  • edited September 2013
    In IT, you simply need to apply the wire brush of enlightenment to the scrotum of ignorance.
  • zx1zx1
    edited September 2013
    I can't lose my temper at work or i would lose my job.
    Where i used to work (in directory enquires) a guy near me got a bad call, he stood up and ripped the keyboard out of its socket and punched his screen!
    He was sacked that same day!
    The trouble with tribbles is.......
  • edited September 2013
    bbulldog wrote: »
    ps. i worked for 11 years with the American Army, you dont want them near anything. lots of the vehicle manuals were written like comic books including cartoon pictures !!

    I can hear the conversation right now!

    Randy - "So, hey Chuck, what happens in the case of a total weapons malfunction? Have a nice day..."

    Chuck - "So, well, Randy...says here we can simply get Storm to cause a tempest whilst Wolverine, Cyclops and Gambit handle all the rough housing...missing you already..."

    Randy - "So, awesome...those terrorists are so boned...do you want fries with that..."

    Rest of Unit - "So, WHOOP! WHOOP! U-S-A...U-S-A...U-S-A...Go Rikki, Go Rikki, Go Rikki..."
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